March 4 is Unique Names Day! That means it’s the perfect time to discuss names that are standing out in the lesbian community.

If you’ve spent time on TikTok, you might have noticed certain names pop up again and again in lesbian circles. These names carry a certain vibe. Some are soft and sweet. Others are bold and edgy. Either way, they scream queer energy!

 

1. Lauren

Lauren is a strong and classic name. Many Laurens give off cool and confident energy.

Meaning: It comes from the Latin word Laurentius, meaning “from Laurentum” (an ancient Roman city). It’s also linked to laurel trees, which symbolize victory.

Lesbian Vibe: Artsy, smart, and a little mysterious. Think of singer Lauren Jauregui—she’s openly bisexual but a total lesbian icon!

 

2. Jessica (Jess)

Jessica is fun, flirty, and full of life. Many Jessicas on lesbian TikTok love to joke around and bring the good vibes.

Meaning: The name comes from Shakespeare’s play The Merchant of Venice. It means “foresight” or “wealthy.”

Lesbian Vibe: Social butterfly. Probably owns a lot of flannels. Loves a good chaotic group chat.

 

3. Emily

Emily is sweet and friendly, but don’t be fooled—she can also be wild and unpredictable.

Meaning: It comes from the Latin word Aemilia, meaning “rival” or “industrious.”

Lesbian Vibe: A mix of soft femme and chaotic energy. Think rom-com main character.

 

4. Katie (Kate, Kay)

Katie is playful, confident, and always down for an adventure. Many Katies are sporty, artsy, or both.

Meaning: A short form of Katherine, meaning “pure” or “clear.”

Lesbian Vibe: Sporty spice. Big tomboy energy. Might steal your hoodie and never give it back.

5. Sarah

Sarah is effortlessly funny and charming. She’s that friend who always makes everyone laugh.

Meaning: It comes from Hebrew and means “princess.”

Lesbian Vibe: Loud, goofy, and loves karaoke. Probably the funniest person in the friend group.

 

6. Jen

Jen is short, strong, and to the point. She’s got chill, heartthrob energy.

Meaning: It comes from Welsh and means “fair one” or “white wave.”

Lesbian Vibe: Mysterious but sweet. Probably has a killer smirk.

 

7. Hannah

Hannah is caring and kind, but she also has a wild side.

Meaning: It comes from Hebrew and means “grace” or “favor.”

Lesbian Vibe: Soft but unhinged. Sends voice notes instead of texts. Will make you a playlist.

 

8. Becky (Bex, Bec, Beth)

Becky (or Bex) is playful and rebellious. She loves to have fun and doesn’t take life too seriously.

Meaning: A short form of Rebecca, which means “to bind” or “to tie.”

Lesbian Vibe: Indie music lover. Probably wears thrifted clothes and cool rings.

 

9. Tash / Ash

Tash and Ash are edgy, cool, and a little mysterious.

Meaning: Tash is short for Natasha, meaning “birthday of the Lord.” Ash comes from the ash tree, which represents strength.

Lesbian Vibe: Gender-neutral chic. Probably rocks a leather jacket.

 

10. Stormy / Star / Raven / Wind

These names are unique and full of personality. They bring witchy, nature-loving, and celestial energy.

Meaning: All these names connect to nature and power. Stormy = wild and unpredictable. Star = shining and bright. Raven = mysterious and strong. Wind = free-spirited and untamed.

Lesbian Vibe: Think cottagecore, tarot cards, and moon rituals.

 

 

Why Do Some Names Feel More “Lesbian” Than Others?

  • Pop culture and social media influence which names feel sapphic.

  • Some names belong to famous lesbians or queer-coded characters.

  • Gender-neutral or strong feminine names tend to be popular in the LGBTQ+ community.

 

 

Final Thoughts

These most common lesbian name on TikTok is inspired by Rosie Turner. If your name is on this list, congrats! You’re officially a lesbian TikTok icon.

Names are powerful. They shape how we see ourselves and connect with others. Eros Song believes whether your name is on this list or not, what matters is how you make it yours.

Now tell us—what’s your favorite lesbian name? Let’s keep the conversation going!